It is important to have an idea of the type of theme and atmosphere that you and fiancé wish to create, also make sure to be thinking of the kind of money that you are willing to spend. You will have to decide on the size, style, and formality of your wedding.

    If you are a member of a religious group, you are likely going to have your ceremony in your own church. It is important to talk to the clergyperson as soon as possible to make an appointment. Make sure that you inquire about the restrictions of the church such as not being able to use confetti, or perhaps music.

    If the ceremony that you are planning is going to be civil make the appointment with the Justice of the Peace as soon as possible. They will then tell you dates, fees, or any requirements. Another alternative is a chapel, which can be used for both religious and non-religious weddings. Ceremonies in a chapel are often more similar to that performed by a judge but they offer more atmosphere.
You may wish to use the grounds of a reception site or the backyard of a family member if you wish to have your ceremony take place outside. If your wedding is taking place in a colder month you may have your ceremony performed in the house of a close friend or family member.
If you are not involved in a religious group you need to take the time to find a minister who will perform your ceremony in your choice of place. It is not necessary for all weddings to follow traditional styles and be religious. Have your ceremony reflect that of your personality. Make sure that you find out how flexible the minister is regarding the ceremonies format and how well he/she will try to use your ideas.

   If your ceremony has a touch of 'you' in it, it will have a lot more special meaning. Be sure that when you book your site you make the arrangements necessary for rehearsals. It is very important to inform your parents, attendants, and anyone else involved in the rehearsal of the date and the time. If someone were unable to make it to the rehearsal it would be a good idea for you to tape it.